An Evening of Leather, Leadership, and Legacy

The Collar & Crown is ONYX Lone Star’s annual formal fundraising dinner honoring the leather, kink, and fetish community with intention, dignity, and pride.

Rooted in leather tradition, the collar represents commitment, trust, and chosen service. The crown represents leadership, stewardship, and the responsibility of visibility. Together, they reflect the truth at the heart of our community: power and submission are not opposites, but partners.

This evening brings together leaders, elders, advocates, and community members for a night of recognition, reflection, and celebration. Through curated honors and communal gathering, The Collar & Crown elevates those who serve, those who lead, and those whose quiet labor sustains our shared culture.

Designed as a formal, intentional space, the event celebrates kink and fetish not as spectacle, but as identity — lived, chosen, and worthy of respect. Guests are invited to arrive in attire that reflects their leather, kink, or fetish expression with polish and purpose.

Proceeds from The Collar & Crown directly support ONYX Lone Star’s mission of education, community building, and advocacy, ensuring that our culture remains visible, protected, and thriving for generations to come.

This is not simply a dinner.

It is a gathering of the marked and the mindful.

A night where service is honored, leadership is recognized, and community stands crowned.